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A Tribute to Teachers, Part 2
No Stupid Questions
One of my favorite memories was hearing them say, “There are no stupid questions. A question is only stupid if you already know the answer.” When stumped on a problem in any subject, we were encouraged to raise our hands and ask. Once we did, we were taken on a journey of logic and thought. Step by step these great women would begin to ask questions, all leading to the answer we sought. Once we made the final leap and answered our own question, they would reply, “My goodness. You knew the answer all along! Why did you take up our time to ask such a silly question?” Every student would beam with joy when they pointed out just how smart we were. These two women taught us to think, to ask, and to feel pride in learning. Years and hundreds of students later, while visiting my old home town, I saw Mrs. Winters in a store. She had retired years before. I was in college and about to be married. As I walked past her, she spoke, called me by name, and asked how I was doing. We spoke briefly and I thanked her for her guidance. She just smiled and told me she loved me, as she did all of her students. My grandchildren now range from high school to preschool. Every year I hope to hear them tell about their own Mrs. Winters or Mrs. Grogan. And each year they share their excitement as they look forward to a new school year. From the stories they tell, there are still a few of those great teachers out there, guiding, teaching, and reassuring the boys and girls in their classes that they already knew the answer to the question. David Teaching with the Spirit She really strengthened my testimony and helped me learn more about what we were studying. She was an excellent teacher. I loved her dearly and I learned to love the gospel more because of her. Faye Moore Trustful Teacher One special Sunday she taught us about being “trustful people.” She explained to us many ways we could be like that, and compared us to a watch. She pointed out that if the battery of the watch started to fail we wouldn’t feel secure with the time and we would just replace the battery. Then we will feel sure again that the time that showed is right. The comments really changed my life and I decide to be a trustful person. I decided that every single word that came out of my mouth I would have to do it, and since that time I am always on time and it doesn´t matter if others are not. That special lesson has blessed in my life. She is no longer with the Young Women but she is a good example of what we should be. Michelle Cerrato Footsteps to Follow On July 23, 2007 Kathy and Brother Pini were traveling to Utah to see their kids when a drunk driver on furlough from prison hit the Pinis head on and killed Kathy instantly. Her husband, Ray, suffered devastating injuries. He has partially recovered and has returned to live in the home they once shared. Because of Kathy I decided after over ten years of procrastination to finish college. I never knew what I wanted to do with my life. Kathy’s last gift to me was touching my heart with the inspiration to follow in her footsteps and become a teacher. I will graduate from the University of Phoenix in 2010 with a bachelor’s degree in early education. I cannot replace Kathy, nor would I want to. But her footsteps are honorable ones to follow, since she followed in Christ’s. I will miss my dear friend until we meet again and when we do we can laugh and share classroom stories. April Dickerson Constructive Criticism I stayed under the radar till high school; but like most students, I had a secret longing to be popular, and the fact that I was on the fringes of high-society kept me awake at night, and affected my grades. When I walked into the first day of English I, my attitude was to do as little as possible to get a decent grade, and spend the rest of my time checking myself in the mirror. The teacher was an ex-army sergeant. What he had applied in the military, he apparently thought was applicable to high school students. I liked him right away, and I appreciated his teaching methods; but I continued to skate through my assignments. One day, after class, he took me aside and said, “Moeena, if you would make the effort, you could move up to English II.” I could? Really? My opinion of myself changed instantly. From that day forward, I saw myself as a bonafied academic. This teacher’s comments had been a direct referral to my poor behavior, and they had stung; but he had added to his criticism the idea that I could excel, if I tried. When I left his classroom that day, I actually felt joy, and the hope for a better me. Moeena Remior Eckman The Extra Mile Geniel Young Cochran was a busy mother with several small children, but she made time to spend every Tuesday evening at MIA with the Bishop’s daughter and me. I had so much to learn, and these two lifelong members, one a teacher, one a peer, taught me everything I needed to know about living the gospel of Jesus Christ. She taught me how to pray and patiently wait for a true answer, how to study the scriptures, and even how to conduct a family home evening. While a Laurel, I learned to accept a call to serve in the church, and how to function as the chorister in the Junior Sunday School. I learned about faith, repentance, and listening to the Spirit speak softly. I became truly grounded in the gospel of Jesus Christ in the short two years we were together. Sister Cochran taught me the importance of a healthy body, and took me to the doctor when I was sick and my mother could not drive. She gave me all the extra time and patience a new convert needed to succeed. Recently we reconvened our Laurel class at Sister Cochran’s home in Bountiful, Utah. We reminisced for hours, laughed together, cried together, and shared our deepest secrets and concerns. It truly was a magical day, with three very mature ladies acting like a Laurel class once more. It was as though the intervening decades had never taken place. Once more, we were two of her students, her girls, learning at the feet of a master teacher and example of the gospel. Our memories at one point took us back to an experience when I was taking my oldest child to begin her studies at BYU. By chance, Sister Cochran called me just prior to the trip, and upon learning I would be driving back to Michigan from Utah alone, insisted on dropping everything in her busy life, including her full-time hospital job, and driving with me so I would have a safe return home. Most teachers in the Church are called and serve well until released. But I have never ceased to be Sister Cochran’s Laurel, though I turn fifty-nine this year. No other teacher in the Church, in school, or in my college experience has stayed with me so faithfully and taught me so much. She continues to serve with a tenderness that has taught me to love the youth I have been called to teach as well. Although bent over with age, she loves me, she calls me, she reminds me of what is right and good about this world, and I want to be just like her. Laurie M. Johnson Inspired I became a Young Women president and I’m so thankful to her for showing me a good example and helping me to become a part of the Young Women organization, and inspiring me to go on mission. Emelyn Quinit Encouragement, Faith, and Influence During my junior and senior years, Brother Flygare was not my seminary teacher, but I still saw him a lot. He really helped my self esteem, courage, and spirituality. He even encouraged me to apply to BYU even though no one in my family had ever gone there. After I was accepted, he encouraged me to pray about where I should go and helped me make my decision to attend the Y. That decision brought me into full activity in the Church, temple marriage, and more joy and blessings than I could ever have imagined. We have kept in touch here and there over the years. I would definitely be a different person with less joy in my life if not for his influence. Lisa Price Double Duty She also happened to be my creative writing teacher when I was a junior. I felt we had a special bond because we knew each other as more than teacher-student. She was a fellow Latter-day Saint in a world of non-members. More than once I would stay after class for a minute to get help on class assignments or church assignments. I often called her “Sister Guess” in school then would go to Church on Sunday and call her “Mrs. Guess.” It was great! When one of my callings was as a counselor in Young Women’s a few years ago, I often recalled how Sister Guess treated us. I tried to pass this on to the girls I taught. I tried to be a teacher, an example of gospel standards, and a friend, just as she had been to me. A little over a year ago I wanted to write a letter to her and let her know how my life was going. I sent her pictures of my kids and told her what an inspiration she had been to me. About a month and a half went by and I spoke to a friend still living in Texas. She told me Sister Guess had passed away around the same time as I sent the letter. I don’t know if she got it; I realized I should have sent it years ago. I just hope she knows now, looking down, that she made a difference in the life of at least one silly teenage girl. Signe Comfort One Special Teacher “One Special Teacher” When I reflect back over all my years, Teacher, through your spirit and guidance, you have helped me to grow. Dedicated to my seminary teacher of two years, Sister Domenico. Heather Nielson LDS Living, September/October 2008
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Today's date: March 19, 2010
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